Monday, April 12, 2021

My Father's Stillson Wrench

Original owner: Francis Chelsea Bacon (Bob’s  Dad)

In the Seabees, my father was a motor machinist mate. I was always impressed with his knowledge of knots. He knew them all. Square knots, running bowlines that didn’t slip, and even simple half hitches.

In Port Hueneme, California, at Seabee Electrician Power Pole School, we learned the bowline to rescue a man from the top of a 35 foot power pole. Everyone calls power poles telephone poles but they ain’t. Bowline sounds like a way to tie up a boat so that it doesn’t get away. That knot does not slip.

In his civilian life he was a millwright, welder, and blacksmith. Knowing ropes and come alongs and torches, he could fix The Crusher at New England Lime Company when it broke down. Huge, no tailgate Euclids would dump the broken up limestone into the The Crusher. It was loud, and you could easily hear it all over the Italian section of town, Zylonite, where we lived. When it broke down, everything from Greylock Mountain to the valley floor in Adams stopped. Except the blasting. Every day around 2pm, the quarry crew would blast a huge section that would then topple into the open pit quarry bottom. You never went near the quarry around 2pm. Never.

Rosa Carnazzola, at her grocery store, would have to put the cans that had fallen back on the shelves. Mom would straighten her picture frames in our little house. As I was saying before you interrupted, everything stopped. The ball mills that pulverized the soft ball size limestone, the kilns that heated the powder, the bagging machines that had nothing to bag if nothing was coming from the quarry. The empty tractor trailer trucks and railroad cars that would haul the lime out of state. Some of it even went to Yankee Stadium. There were no Red Sox fans in Adams. We got our TV signal and news from WRGB Albany. It is in New York. 

Dad would drive up the limestone road with five or six men and they would do the repair. Sometimes it would take days.

In Ms. Malley's English class in 1962, each of us had to stand in front of the class and make a presentation. I made mine using Dad’s Stillson wrench pictured above. It is the actual one.

Ms. Malley wore her hair pulled back and she had leather, quite substantial, tie shoes, which she wore with her below-the-knee dresses. She wore granny glasses and took NO prisoners. She was partial to the high school football players. My halfback Adams High captain father was scouted by the New York Giants. But then the war came. In 1939 she was my father's English teacher also.

Just like Samuel Colt of Connecticut did with his pistol, Daniel Stillman of New Hampshire, around 1865, made his prototype from wood. What was new about it was unlike the monkey wrench, the teeth on the Stillson were on an angle. He paid someone to build it of steel, and every plumber or swimming pool builder you know today has a Stillson. 

I carry this one in my pick up truck. The loop loc swimming pool safety covers are secured with brass screws into the concrete. There are around 40 of them. They get full of sand, or they get stripped, and sometimes you cannot unscrew them -- unless of course you own your Dad’s Stillson wrench.

Say Kids, What Time Is It?


 I am reading a book called The Other Custers.

George Armstrong Custer, who married Elizabeth Bacon, had three brothers and one sister. The book covers from their births, through the Civil War and Little Big Horn in Montana Territory, and more. Brother Tom won two Medals of Honor. Boston was not named after our town but after a small town in Pennsylvania called East Boston where their mother was from. I am still reading.



His brother Nevin was the only brother who did not go to war. Tom and Boston, and sister Maggie's husband  James Calhoun, all died on that hill near the Big Horn River. In the end Captain Myles Kehoe's horse, Comanche, was the only warm body of the Seventh Calvary still standing. Crazy Horse, Gaul, and Sitting Bull were not harmed.

Nevin had a daughter named Clarabelle. We know Clara from Hotel Cabanas on Isla Mujeres.

Why is that name familiar? Then it hit me, “Say kids, what time is it?"



Sing with me, "It’s Howdy Doody time, it's Howdy Doody time!"

It ran on TV from 1946 until 1960. Buffalo Bob was the host. How did he come up with that name? He lived to be 80. Some of the characters were 

• Clarabell
•  Princess SummerFallWinterSpring
• puppet Howdy, of course  
• Phineas T. Bluster
• and Don Salmond's favorite, Chief Thunderthud

No wonder that children born in the 40’s, especially Republicans, are dull witted.

Bob Bacon 1945

Thursday, September 17, 2020

Senior Chief Chester Urbati has left the building


Attention on Deck!

Sandy and I spoke to Carmen Urbati  in Gulfport this sad sunny Sunday afternoon from our deck.

Chet needed a heart valve and had the operation through the groin in December 2019.

Part of the old valve broke off and did serious heart damage. He needed open heart surgery but the Navy doctor said that he was too old to possibly survive it.

Carmen arranged a drive by via their front porch for Chet's 85th birthday on June 25th. Seventeen cars drove by and the Urbatis truly enjoyed that day.

It seems he did not suffer a lot, but at the end he was ready to go. Chet was cremated along with a Navy Seabee flag.       Shocking!

Carmen met Chet in her native Puerto Rico, at the PX, when he was stationed there. Wish I watched that courtship happening. They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary plus six months this year. They could dance Cajun and the four of us did just that at Mulates on the waterfront in New Orleans once or twice.

Carmen is planning Chet's funeral for 2021 in Gulfport. The funeral company is doing a write up on him. I hope they have enough paper to record the many places that he was stationed during his 44 years of service. South Weymouth Naval Air Station, Sicily, Rhoda Spain, Italy, Vietnam, Gulfport Mississippi, Guam, American Samoa, Ethiopia, Puerto Rico, and probably seventeen other places that he forgot to mention.

I met Chet in 1965. He was my section leader in the electrical shop at NAS South Weymouth. I was only 20. We kept  Barracks 76 and the NAS runway and taxi way lights, and the two airplane and blimp hangers lights, on even during the East Coast black out of 1965. We also kept the runways clear during the winter Snow Bill, during twelve hour shifts.  “Snow Bill is In," was the telephone call we would get, calling us back to the base for duty off of weekend liberty. I think it only snowed on weekends.

He totally took me under his wing, as if I was family. As a matter of fact, he even took me to his mother and father's house in Hingham, at Crow Point. They made me feel totally at home. I visited often on my own.

Did you ever see him not happy, or complaining about anything? Or even criticizing anyone? I wish I had his eternal optimism and general happiness. He was always smiling and telling sea stories. He had a way of telling original stories that made you feel you were hearing them for the very first time. I am so thankful and blessed that he was a part of my life.

He sent me a baboon skin from Ethiopia. Has this ever happened to you?

He was dating the Army captain's daughter. It was an Army base. The chief called him in to has office:  “Urbati, do you think as an enlisted man that you should be dating a base commander and officer's daughter?"  It was shortly after that that he was transferred to Da Nang. Who could that possibly happen to?  The one, the only … a true patriot: Chet Urbati.

Bacon R.F. CEW 2  10-93-10-63     United States Navy Seabee     



Mercedes Barcha & Gabriel Garcia Marquez

 


Gabriel “Gabo" and Mercedes met when they were 9 y 14 years young and he knew. She did not. Sandy and I met when we were 14 y 15 and I knew. Sandy did not. I really did. And I didn’t know much, but I knew.

We have to stay married for three more years to tie the Garcia Marquez’s. I have read many of his books. I always wondered why he would take two showers every day. An adventure to Colombia taught me why.

Is theirs a fabulous story or yes?  Sandy, Marnie and I have been to his casa in Cartagena, and even the bar at the El Hotel Santa Clara where he drank.

A friend, Charles Gregory of Albuquerque, New Mexico, pushed the book “One Hundred Years of Solitude" on me twenty years ago. Charles had spent much of his young life in a mission near the Alamo in San Antonio. 

I do not enjoy fiction. I read the whole book on the playa at Na Balam with my toes in the warm white sand. I did not like it. A little too fictional for me.

Years later on Isla Mujeres, Mexico, I found a copy of the novel abandoned at the free book table at “Cabanas" Maria del Mar. That copy sold for $3.95 in 1971. Once again. I reread it, thinking to myself. “Don’t be so serious. Enjoy the words.”  Last night in my casita on the bog, I reread the first three pages -- WOW!

Only 50 million copies sold? Published the same year Sandy and I were married. A coincidence? I think not.    
ja ja      

Have YOU read it ?

su servidor,           
Roberto Francisco Tocino

Follow this link to read Mercedes Barcha's obituary: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/23/books/mercedes-barcha-dead.html

Sunday, April 12, 2020

Souvenirs


I am dusting the six lighted shelves in our kitchen, in what was once a broom closet. All kinds of cool memory-souvenir-travel stuff: 
• kachinas from the Hopi Mesa
• some awesome Maya statues from Coba, Uxmal, Tulum, Campeche and Chichen Itza
• pottery pieces from the ancient village above Agua Caliente, New Mexico
• a coffee cup from Cortez, Colorado near Mesa Verde
• a rug from Istanbul (OK OK we didn’t buy it, but it is a fun story)
• a stone statue from Portovenere (port of Venus) in Italy at the south end of Cinque Terra
• a carved Maya wall piece from Palenque in Chiapas 
• a cowboy statue from Disney Land 1967
• a beautiful sandstone with a natural red heart from Capital Reef National Park in Utah
• four kachinas from Santa Fe, Canyon de Chelly, Gallup and Flagstaff
• a stone from the bottom of the Grand Canyon on the Colorado River
• three pieces of cholla wood from the cholla cactus of the hills of Albuquerque
• a salad bowl that has a piece of medical tape on it that says "Nora Bacon" in my mom's own handwriting
• four types of railroad spikes that held the wooden ties of the Old Colony Railroad that once ran to the Cape through  our back yard (1845- 1939)
• a lava stone from Hawaii, and one from Phantom Ranch
• a small white Zeus or Poseidon bust from Athens
•  beat-up Pusser's Landing BVI tin cup that once held a Pain Killer drink or two
• Sandy’s father's WWII medals and his cigarette lighter
• a piece of white coral from Isla Mujeres 
• a slice of red rock from Sedona
• a flat wall rock from Connecticut that has imbedded fossils in it 
• a 6,000-year-old spearhead that I found on a pool excavation on the North River
• a rectangle rock labeled "2001 Montana" 
and 
• a Mohawk Trail plate with an elk in the center that Rich Busa gave me 19 years ago. I have family photos with my father's father on that very site on the Mohawk Trail on Route 2, at the top of the Hoosac Mountain Range. Thank you.